Involving older siblings in revealing a new pregnancy allows them to feel included in the exciting news and helps prepare them for their important new role as a big brother or sister. There are countless fun and memorable ideas for surprising them with the announcement. Here are 50 unique ways families have creatively shared this heartwarming news with an older child.
T-Shirt Surprise
Customizing a shirt with a funny or heartfelt message is a classic way to announce the news. One family designed shirts that read “promotion to big sister” for their daughter to wear in photos they shared on social media. The beaming smile on her face said it all!
Scavenger Hunt Clues
Hiding sonogram photos or other subtle baby clues around the house or yard can make for an entertaining scavenger hunt. One sibling loved following a trail of riddles to find their prize gift of a book called “How to Be the Best Big Brother.”
Movie Night Mid-Reveal
During a cozy movie at home, mom stood up halfway through saying “I’ll be right back” and returned moments later with popcorn, plus an ultrasound tucked inside one child’s bowl.
Bake Shop Sweet Surprise
Parents worked with a local bakery to design sugar cookies customized with each child’s name, plus “Big Sister to Be” or “Promoted to Big Bro” messages in icing.
Storytime with a Subtle Clue
Choosing a book themed around siblings or pregnancy, one family slyly inserted an ultrasound between pages for their oldest to discover upon finishing.
Arts and Crafts Project
Several families involved siblings in creating homemade cards or framed photos showcasing family portraits with a new ultrasound image subtly tucked in the background.
Picnic Basket Picture Hunt
On a scenic picnic blanket, the first sandwich contained an ultrasound sneakily tucked inside, and the second had a note rolled up within (which read “You’re going to be a big sister!” upon unfolding).
Goodie Bag Gift Giving
For one child’s birthday, his gift bag included typical candy plus a baby item like diapers or a onesie as a pregnancy hint.
Video Chat Background Clues
For those distant from family, parents positioned subtle items on bookshelves or end tables in the background of calls before sharing their news.
Errand with a Surprise Find
One mother asked to bring their child along to “pick up something for Mommy’s bellyache” resulting in spotted baby care items in the shopping cart later.
Photo Album Picture Discovery
For another, hidden sonogram photos were artfully tucked behind family portraits so siblings noticed them during a casual album thumbing session.
Morning Walk Baby Bump Reveal
One morning while walking together, a sibling was asked to gently hold Mommy’s shirt out to reveal her small bump accompanied by an ultrasound in a clear plastic bag for them to take home.
Trip to Build-A-Bear Workshop
At the workshop, siblings were asked to help stuff the clothing a baby bear would wear, then noticed a sonogram placed inside upon checking the bear’s condition before leaving the store.
Bedtime Storytime Surprise
Rather than a typical storybook before bed, one child was given a book about becoming a big brother to read themselves, then excitedly came running to share their discovery.
Bath Time Clue Finds
While bathing together, a toy duck or fish was given to the child to hold – who then noticed an ultrasound tucked away inside for safekeeping from the water.
Chalkboard Sign Sharing
Using sidewalk chalk or a portable chalkboard at the park, one sibling wrote “We have an extra player coming soon!” in colorful letters for their growing audience to discover.
Cookie Recipe Reveal
Rolling out cookie dough, one child found letters hidden inside to rearrange and spell out their new role while baking.
Toy Block Name Spelling
Stacking letter blocks from a toy set in front of the TV spelled out a phrase like “Gonna Be A Big Brother” for someone to decipher.
Bumper Sticker Car Message
On a minivan, one sticker read “Promoted to Big Sis” to get a reaction from siblings everywhere they went over the next several months.
Neighborhood Sidewalk Sweets
Setting up a decorated stand outside to share cupcakes with a “Surprise Inside” note attached by the door got neighbors involved in spreading word of their news.
Outdoor Chalkboard Drawing
In addition to writing a message, one child used colored sidewalk chalk to sketch a loving family portrait including Mom’s baby bump for all the neighborhood to see.
Pajama Day Pajamas
Picking out fun outfits to wear to school together, one set said “Big Sis to Be” across the front in iron-on letters.
Trip to Build-A-Bear Workshop II
Stuffing a new baby animal wearing booties and a hat was enough to pique questions leading into the ultrasound reveal from a smiling parent.
Neighborhood Scavenger Hunt
Leaving clues in mailboxes lining their street was an entertaining way for several families to involve the community while their child unravelled the mystery.
Storybook to Film Adaptation
Bringing a children’s story bursting with clues about becoming an older sibling to animated life with props and familiar characters made for memorable moments captured on film.
T-Shirt Reveal Photos
A photoshoot sporting customized shirts left no guesswork with messages like “Future Sibling Wrangler” taking center stage in pictures shared.
Front Yard Sign Debut
Painting uplifting words on a large poster board became a sidewalk conversation piece while also surprising siblings first spotting it from inside.
Cookies on a Stick Surprise
Gluing cut-out baby or superhero pictures behind each Popsicle ensured everyone enjoying them as a family learned the big news.
Craft Kits Tell All
Assembling jewelry or model cars together, one child noticed tiny envelope inside holding their ultrasound picture to admire up close.
Costume Party Twist
Hosting a themed bash, siblings discovered baby-related accessories hidden within bags of treats or goodie bags at party’s end.
Backyard Balloon Bash
Tying ribbons around colorful balloons let them spell out messages in the sky while kids enjoyed picnics and games below.
Envelope Art Party Fun
Creating one-of-a-kind cards together with gel pens and stickers, a special envelope was created just for older sibling containing the big reveal.
Video Game Level Completion
Pausing gameplay to “check something” resulted in returned parents surprising with news and pictures in hand congratulating their promotion.
Birthday Card Clue
Finding an envelope labeled “Top Secret” inside their birthday card contained sonogram images rather than expected cash or gift cards.
Neighborhood Scavenger Hunt II
Hiding clues in meaningful spots and leaving photo treasures along the way engaged siblings and peers alike in spreading happy word.
Leaf Hunt Fingerprint Art
Pressing colorful fall leaves collected together revealed handprints—and ultrasound squeezed inside forming a one-of-a kind natural announcement.
Classroom Show and Tell
Bringing in a “mystery item” like baby clothing or toys to school in a decorated bag unveiled during presentation time for peers doubled the audience.
Movie Night Snack Strategy
Halfway through the film, parents left “to make more popcorn” but returned with both microwave popcorn and a small popcorn box containing the big reveal inside to share just as intimately as popcorn itself.
Book Club Book Marks
Slipping ultrasound photos inside favorite storybooks ensured special discovery moments whether borrowed from family friends or local libraries.
Group Facetime Photo Fun
Posing as a family for pictures while skyping loved ones, later photos were enhanced digitally with baby accessories or signs held by parents for surprise.
Family Photo Surprise
Taking annual holiday pictures together often means looking through proofs together afterwards—making for an intimate moment when hidden, not-so-hidden clues first come into view for siblings.
Bedtime Storybook Secrets
Following stories each night, one book was specially selected and read just between parent and child resulting in snuck-away ultrasound discovery tucked within final pages.
Morning Walk Balloon Animals
Rather than bringing homemade snacks on their daily stroll, balloons spelled out sibling’s new big role to discover upon returning home.
Gift Bag Peek-A-Boo
Sneakily hiding sonogram photos rolled inside ribbons, tissues or gift bags full of sweets provided an extra-sweet surprise among typically-wrapped birthday presents.
Driveway Chalkboard Welcome
Writing happy birthday wishes on a large poster board in the driveway not only greeted birthday siblings each morning but also hid a subtler ultrasound photo just underneath to discover later in the day.
Christmas Stocking Stuffers
While typically filling stockings near the hearth with candy, small toys and letters from Santa, parents added a heartfelt card from the new baby inside older sibling’s for a Christmas they’d never forget.
Playdate Photo Fun Hunt
Clueing playdate friends in on a collaborative photo shoot while also involving older sibling, subtle accessories or signs were held, worn, or spotted in final framed pictures together.
Backyard Campout Cookies
Roasting smores by the firepit, parents brought out piping hot cookies afterward for everyone —whose special icing message was not fully visible until cooled, taking both siblings and peers surprise.
Backyard Water Fun
Setting up a sprinkler or kiddie pool along with treats and cold drinks outside transformed ordinary play into a perfect opportunity finding ultrasound photoshopped unexpectedly onto a pool toy or beach ball spotted while happily enjoying the day.
Outing Photo Fun Hunt II
Heading to favorite family destinations like the zoo, park or children’s museum presented endless chances capturing sibling’s candid reactions among friends with just the right hidden accessories, signs or photoshopped prints held unsuspectingly in the background amid special memories.
Family Movie Night Premiere
Editing together home videos set to music became a way to surprise sibling with hidden clues among a mini movie documenting their lives —premiering just for them while cozied together on the couch at film’s end.
Scrapbook Page by Page Reveals
Looking through pages together creatively journaling family memories provided the intimacy needed secretly slipping ultrasound images facing away within final pages just waiting to be sweetly discovered.
Museum Scavenger Hunt
Pairing an engaging outdoor activity with subtle photography allowed siblings to take center stage unknowingly with covered accessories, props or signs held among discoveries later shared.
Park Playdate Photo Fun Hunt III
Whether playground, splashpad or open fields, seeking snapshots together gave the perfect opportunity for accessory reveals hiding in plain sight during candid moments captured.
Driveway Sidewalk Art Surprise
Sidewalk chalk creations whether drawings, inspirational messages or hopscotch became intimate reveal canvases carefully added to only after older sibling headed back inside, later finding hidden details while resuming play.
Backyard Campout S’more Surprise
After roasting the ultimate campfire treat together, later photos were resurfaced showing hidden accessories, or printed clues held sneakily within the framed memories now gracing the family fireplace.
No matter the creative approach, subtlety and heart are what make these special announcements meaningful for siblings and loved ones alike. May your experience bringing new life into this world be filled with joy, love and plenty of happy surprises!
I’m Mithun Debnath, a dedicated dad and the founder of Papa Parenting. I’m here to share my parenting journey, tips, and insights to make your life as a parent a little easier. Join me as we navigate the adventures of fatherhood together.